I Told Him No

See what had happened was.....lol

I just love to say that. At any rate this past week I was asked to do someone a huge favor. A favor that would put my name and credibility on the line. A favor that could forever effect the life of another person. No, it was not life or death. But it was still important.

See last year I thought this same person, asking for the favor, had the best interest of my family and me. Slowly I began to see that it was not all that I thought it to be. I did not mean for that to rhyme. So between the two of us we took on huge responsibilities where our children were concerned over the past year. When the responsibility became to much he discarded those responsibilities he took on and I was still trying to uphold mine. Mainly because I love children so much.

Now many months later, he is in the same situation he was this time last year. At some point we have to allow others to see the results of their decisions and actions. While I could intervene and assist him, I believe it would hinder more than help him. So this time I told him no. Hopefully from this he will grow and learn to not take those who really care for him for granted.

As for his situation, it is in God's hand and I am cool with that.

9 days til 40

Lindar