If you love basketball then this is one of your favorite times of the year. March Madness. It all begins with teams waiting to see where they’re going. Once they know, then fans have to decide if they can make the trip or if they are going to grab some wings and head over to someone’s house because not watching is not an option. I can’t tell you who’s still playing or who’s favored to win but my heart belongs to some small college off Victory Parkway. Yeah, I know.
Writing looks different for me now.
There was a time when writing felt tied to output. Posting consistently. Finishing what I started. Making sure it made sense, looked right, and said something meaningful to others. There was an unspoken pressure to produce, to show up in a way that felt complete, polished, and ready to be received.
But life has a way of interrupting performance.
Illness slowed me down. Recovery changed my rhythm. Grief shifted what I had the capacity to carry. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, writing stopped being something I did to share and became something I needed to survive.
I didn’t always have the energy to organize my thoughts. Some days, I didn’t have the words at all. Other days, the words came but they came heavy. Unfiltered. Unstructured. Honest. And instead of pushing that away or trying to clean it up, I started allowing it.
That was the shift.
Writing recently hasn’t been for performance, it’s been for peace.
Peace in getting it out.
Peace in not holding everything in.
Peace in allowing my thoughts to exist without forcing them into perfection.
Some days writing looks like a full blog post. Other days it’s a sentence. A voice note. A few thoughts captured before they disappear. And I’ve learned that all of it counts.
Trying to force creativity in a season of healing only created more resistance. But when I allowed myself to write from where I actually am, the words began to meet me there.
I didn’t force clarity.
I allowed truth.
And truth doesn’t always come polished. Sometimes it comes in fragments. In pauses. In reflections that don’t tie themselves together right away. But even in that, there is value. Because the goal is no longer perfection, the goal is release.
Writing became a way for me to process what I’ve lived through. To sit with my thoughts instead of running from them. To make sense of emotions that didn’t always have language at first.
It also became a way for me to return to myself.
Not the version of me that felt pressure to perform, but the version of me that simply needed space to be. Space to feel. Space to create without expectation. Space to simply be.
And in that space, something unexpected happened.
My voice didn’t disappear, it became clearer.
My thoughts didn’t scatter, they began to connect.
My creativity didn’t leave, it just needed a different environment to grow.
Writing for peace allowed me to stay present with my grief and my creativity at the same time—without asking one to disappear so the other could exist.
That, for me, is what makes this season different.
I’m not writing to prove anything. I have nothing to prove.
I’m not writing to keep up. I'm going at my own pace.
I’m not writing to perform. Rather to simply get my thoughts out.
I’m writing to breathe.
And somehow, in choosing peace, I found my voice again.
This video is one of my favorite videos to use in the classroom. I've used it when students are completing quiet work, when students were coming back from lunch or when we were taking a moment to take a breath.
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