Staying in My Lane

We all have driven on the expressway and been annoyed by drivers. Either they are going too slow in the fast lane or too fast in the slow lane. I know that whenever I drive I try to stay in the lane that works for me. On the expressway it is the middle lane, except if I am traveling to Columbus then I find someone to tail in the fast lane. When I am on the regular streets I stay in the lane that is going to turn in the direction that I want to go. So even if that lane is crowded and moving slow, I know it's the lane I need to eventually get me to where I want to go.

Nothing is more irritating to me than getting in the more convenient lane, because it's moving faster, and having to go through a lot of trouble to try and get over so I can turn. Sometimes I have had to pass up the turn and go up farther and make my turn later. That only leads to me having to back track to where I was originally headed. I don't like to backtrack.

When I set out on a journey, near or far, I always have a plan as to how I will reach my destination. I have my directions, my hotel reservations, and the proper music. In several months I have a birthday coming up and I tell you turning 40 is a pivotal moment for me. All that I have learned up to this point prepares me for the years ahead. I know where I am headed and I am learning to stick to that plan and not get off that path.

While I am waiting to get there, I also want to enjoy the scenery and make sure I don't miss my turns or major exits. I am learning to embrace who I am and to be patient with who I am to become. For years I tried staying in the fast lane, rushing to get nowhere. I have been in that convenient lane only to have no one allow me access to get over when I needed to, because of that I have missed out on some opportunities and some friendships.

I now know where I want to go and after twenty plus years I know how to get there in a timely and safe manner. I am not trying to be the fastest and pass up anyone. Besides what does being in the fast lane really accomplish? Some of those people I need to meet, and I need to hear about their journeys. I also do not want others in my way, not allowing me access to where I need to turn.

I no longer what to miss out on new friendships and amazing experiences. I have learned to enjoy all who I come into contact with daily. I am on my way to some place great and I want to enjoy getting there while I stay in my lane.

I'm In Good Hands


Lindar