I started walking on June 30 and today I can say that I completed one mile on my own (Yeah!) and at this very moment the top of my thighs are burning and my back feels like someone shot me with a pellet gun on each side. With that said, I did complete my goal and will continue on with my goal. One Mile, The Mall, C'mon Jordan
I started walking on June 30 and today I can say that I completed one mile on my own (Yeah!) and at this very moment the top of my thighs are burning and my back feels like someone shot me with a pellet gun on each side. With that said, I did complete my goal and will continue on with my goal. Stepping It Up!

Walking has been one of the biggest challenges for me. One because I normally just don't go for a walk and two I didn't have any shoes to walk in. Buying tennis shoes is generally not on my things to do list for myself. I had found a person who would train me but I could never find it in my budget to fit that purchase in. I would rather make sure my sons had tennis shoes.
Over the summer my older son went on vacation in Florida. One day he was out shopping at a Nike outlet and called me to ask me what size shoe I wore. I told him that I wanted him to shop for himself. He kept talking and immediately sent me a picture of the shoe he was looking at for me. Well, on the morning that he flew in from Florida he presented me with my new tennis shoes, his younger brother with some Nike outfits, and he took us all to eat at Friday's. How many sixteen year old boys do that?
To date I have been walking 2-3 times a week, for three weeks. At times it hurts and I am trying to realize that Alleve should not be taken like a daily vitamin. And contrary to my cousin's belief, yeah you Lora, I can't do four times around the park yet. I am sticking with my three until further notice!
I am happy with my progress. I talk to God, watch the rabbits eat, and watches as a 60 year old woman passes me twice on the track, and then breaks out into a jog. Maybe I need to step it up a little more huh? ;)
Stepping Into A Better Me,
Lindar
Forgiveness
On this past Wednesday I felt compelled to ask for some positive criticism about Ghetto Chick. That is something that I rarely do with someone I really don't know. It was a God ordained moment. She told me that she would read it and give the book back to me on Friday, at women's bible study.When I saw her, we hugged and chatted. After she sat down, she handed me the book and said "I really enjoyed the book but one thing was missing". I'm thinking after all the hours, days, weeks, and years nothing could possibly be missing. What Ms. Leslie told me was missing was the act of forgiveness.
So I sat there and thought about her words and I honestly had no response. Now, several hours later I ponder that conversation. What about forgiveness and who exactly is supposed to do the forgiving? Is it between the former husband and me? What starts that process? Is it between the last relationship and me? Ain't nobody going to start that process! Out of sight, out of mind. You feel me? When we talk about forgiving, who forgives who? Is it verbal, nonverbal or written?
Lindar
E. Lynn Harris

Blog Post
Here is a blog that I wanted to share with everyone. There is a very good friend who has blessed me with so much knowledge in the past year to push this blog site, my books, and she keeps me going and going. She is so full of life and so full of ideas. We going on Oprah together. I have sent that to the universe. KIRK FRANKLIN - HOSANA
Today is a day that I take time to reflect on my Granny. Even though she has been gone for several years. I swear it feels like yesterday when I got the call. If you come to my home and see my beautiful plants, that was a gift that she passed on to me. It took me a while to get them to stay alive and grow, but I finally did it. I know she is laughing at me and Alex tyring to take of the yard. Some days we laugh about it too. She would have loved Tyler and would have laughed so much watching him fill his jaws with grapes and strawberries.
If you go into my kitchen and see my gadgets, many were gifts from her. Being in the kitchen and working in her gardern was important to her life. I can't even figure out the whole quilting thing. But I am still trying Granny.
This song was one of her favorites and I remember sitting and watching this dvd with her. Oh! God! She loved Kirk Franklin. It's hard to listen to this song, even now. Granny gave me years of memories, knowledge, recipes, and lectures. I know she would be proud of all of us. In knowing that I keep pressing.
The heart is heavy today,
Lindar
Behold I Do A New Thing
Notice anything different about the site? The color? The design? I am growing and so is my site, so I decided it was time to do an update. And you know what? I really like it. I am learning a great deal of information about blogging and presentation is everything. Many new people are hitting my site and I want it to reflect who I am growing to be.I hope you like the new update. Don't be surprised if it changes again. Change is always good.
Be Blessed,
Lindar
JK Wedding Entrance Dance
I love this video so much. I was in tears. It was funny, heartful and wonderful display of unity and love. May God bless your union. Life is one big dance anyway.
Just
Today I just feel good. Before going to bed last night I cleaned a great deal of my home so I would not have much to worry about this morning. I put away toys, vacuumed, and straightened some things up. After I cleaned I watched "The Tiny and Toya Show" and part of "The Wendy Williams Show". I can honestly say that I gained something from each program. New Poem on Poetry.com
http://poetry.com/dotnet/W0352881/999/1/display.aspx
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