LindarInsights: December 2009

If A Child Can Ask In Faith

I have a toddler who loves Monster Trucks. I mean truly loves Monster Trucks. At three he could name his favorite trucks, Grave Digger, Blue Thunder, Maxium Destruction. I even know that Dennis Anderson drives Grave Digger. It was crazy because I had no clue what a Monster Truck was. My father was flipping through the channels one day and on the Speed Channel was a Monster Truck Show. Well needless to say at Grandpa's House that is what my son watches.

When I would go to Walmart I would pick him up two and thought I was doing good. At $3.97 a piece I could handle a couple of trucks every now and then. Recently I sat down with Ty and asked him what he wanted for Christmas. His response was simply more Monster Trucks. He named the ones he wanted most, Taz and El Toro Loco. So in my mind I was set. If I bought him his favorite 10 Ty would be good for Christmas, of course along with my favorite pajamas from Target.

My co-workers and I are pretty close. We talk about our children and of course we discussed Christmas and what are children were expecting. One day I heard God speak to me before entering my school building. He said, "Arlinda don't take anything in the building with you. There is something you need to bring out today." I listened and I kept my things in the car.

As I sat at my desk, that morning, my co-worker enters my classroom with a box and a bag. He set them down and says, "This is for Ty." When I looked in the bag I immediately knew that I would not be purchasing any Monster Trucks for Ty. Not only were there over 40 trucks, but there were also books, videos and Hot Wheel Race Cars sets. And yes, Taz and El Toro Loco were in the bag. Ty nows has a collection of various sizes of Monster Trucks. They are in the parking garage in front of my fire place. lol

One of my favorite prayers is the Prayer of Jabez...Oh! That You bless me indeed....Ty knew to ask in faith and expect it. He didn't get the ten mommy was going to give he received way more. If a child can ask in faith and expect it shouldn't we be able to do the same?

I am asking in faith and expecting to be blessed indeed and for my territory to be enlarged. How about you? I am taking my faith to that next level of expectancy.

D.I.V.A Don't Get Played by Shay Williams

D.I.V.A Don't Get Played: A Single Woman's Dating Guide to Catching the Man of Her Dreams in 30 Days!

How is this dating guide so different from other dating books? Many dating books on the market today tell women how to think like a man, date like a man,and fall in love with a man. Others claim to inform you how to get your man to commit, or even better, how to get your man to marry you.

The difference between those dating books and this guide is that this one offers a little of that while also offering scientifically proven, extensively researched information that has successfully helped hundreds of women around the world.

In addition, it's the most comprehensive guide on the market for single women navigating through the dating process. Shay Williams, also known as Shay Your Date Diva to her fans, is a writer, speaker and relationship coach who is passionate about helping to empower women of all ages to not settle for less than the love experience they deserve. After one heartbreak after another, she decided to go on a journey to uncover the secrets of understanding men, the art of dating and what it takes to attract the right man.

This research paid off because after launching her experiment of dating over 100 men within nine months, reading over 50 relationship books and interviewing hundreds of men, women and couples, Shay Your Date Diva discovered that there are common patterns in male-female relationship that either lead to a happy, healthy relationship or a relationship of pain. Shay used her research results and understanding of men to produce two books as a guide to dating and relationships.

Shay Your Date Diva also uses her tremendous knowledge to offer relationship advice to women all over the world through her radio and television interviews, as well as her growing youtube.com channel that features over 100 videos sharing her dating experience and expertise.
ISBN-10: 098230840X ISBN-13: 978-0982308400
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Book Review for Nookie
by Anieshea Dansby

Nookie by Anieshea Dansby is an account of a misunderstood teenager, who is looking for love in all the wrong places. Living through abandonment, abuse and devastation; what is a girl to do to turn her life around?

Joy has a picture to those on the outside looking in, but in reality, this is far from the truth. Joy's father is never home and her mother is a functioning nut case. While trying to put on a brave face and finish high school, the family moves and she loses the little comfort and security she had.

Making new friends and relocating is hard on everyone, but Joy feels the pain more when her high school sweetheart moves on with someone else. Heartbroken and alone, Joy is trying to pick up the pieces of her life when she meets Kevin.

Kevin is an older guy who owns his own photography store and befriends Joy, but when she puts Kevin in a bad situation all hell breaks loose as he tries to defend himself. With no where to go, Joy is left to roam the streets, hungry and homeless. She calls her friend, Tanya in hopes of finding somewhere to live for the time being.

Tanya is running with the wrong crowd, and gladly invit es her friend to stay with her and her drug dealer boyfriend, Shawn. Could Joy's life get any worst? With endless nights of drinking and smoking, Joy has lost all focus on finishing school and getting a job.

This book is filled with drama, graphic descriptions and young girls who make you want to grab them and shake some sense into them. I recommend this book to all the young teens out here who feel that their parents are too strict, cause believe it, it could happen to you. Stay tuned for part II; I cannot wait for the sequel. --- Reviewed by: Cheryl H, APOOO BookClub

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Something About Jesus by Kenneth Carter

Something about Jesus that is calming in crisis

In past, yesterday and today people aren't the nicest

Something about Jesus is more than wonderful

In times of financial stress His grace is plentiful

Something about Jesus death, and rise that is unmatched

In times where feelings fade and marriages collapse

Something about Jesus words that gives us hope

In times when people feel they just can't cope

Something about Jesus forgiving will love and save a heathen

In these times we pray Our Father Which Art In Heaven...

Levels

Today the cable man had to come to my home. For some reason we were not getting the one channel we needed, Nick Jr. aka Noggin. The screen was simply black, no words, graphics or anything. When the cable man arrived he started pulling out cords and after a while he paused. He asked me how many t.v.'s did I have and where was my internet connection. I was confused by his questions. Then he informed me that on his way to my home he checked my levels and they were low. Wow. That's technology for you.

He worked so hard and still no Nick Jr. Finally, he asked to see the other connections in my home. We went to my son's room and all was good. We went to where my computer was and all was good. Then he turned around and saw a connection that was not being used. He asked me, "Are you going to use this connection? If not then I am going to disconnect it because I think it is draining your signal to your computer and other televsions."

Hmmm! Because I was not using something it was draining other things.

Well needless to say he was right. When it was all said and done the cable worked completely. I even think it's brighter and the internet is faster. Thinking on it I don't use a t.v. at that outlet, therefore there was not a need for it. I guess getting rid of what I don't need or didn't use made all of the other connections work better that I use daily. That could be a life lesson. Get rid of what you don't need or you aren't using. Those things could be hindering you from reaching new levels.

Tyler's smile lit up the room when he saw Nick Jr. was working.The cable man had made his day. As for me, my levels are looking real good!

In Memory of Chris Henry

Praying for our city, the Cincinnati Bengals and most importantly the family of

Chris Henry. My heartfelt prayers go out to those who truly knew and loved him.

Just For You by Kenneth Carter

Created in His image just for you
Soft kisses that mesmerize too
Attach my heart to yours to complete me
Each encounter we create a good memory
Deep thoughts of you, a welcomed intrution
To share my life with you, that's the best conclusion!

1st Anniversary of LindarInsights

Wow!!!!!!!!

Exactly one year ago today I created LindarInsights. Since then I have so many amazing events occur. Ghetto Chick is published and I actually sold several copies...lol. Not bad! For those who have purchased Ghetto Chick I have received many good reviews from them. I am working on finishing Sumthing Special the story of the writings in Ghetto Chick.

Lindar has a Facebook page and on Facebook I have met so many amazing writers and supporters of writers. Under the guidance of Ella Curry I have networked and assisted with getting the word out about upcoming and established writers. I also had the opportunity to speak online with Ella about my book and my blogsite.

I am in a very different place than I was last year. I am single and cool with my status. My sons are growing by leaps and bounds and we continue to see them do awesome things. One of our biggest successes has been getting the toddler potty trained. What a task! lol

Below is the link to my very first blog and I hope that you read it and enjoy. God has an amazing plan for my life. I am learning to walk in that plan. Are you walking in yours?

Thanks for your continued love, support, and feedback. This path began last year. There is so much more to come......

Watch Me Continue to Soar,

Lindar

http://lindarinsights.blogspot.com/2008/12/just-beginning.html

The Search is Over by Kenneth Carter

Beautiful people in pursuit of beau ideal

Affix two hearts sprinkle sex appeal

Comedy club quite humorous

Playful banter feeling amorous

Noticeable glow, no longer tip toe

Thanking God, I found my halo

Untitled by Kenneth Carter

Sunrise smiled at me this morning--

Seconds, minutes, hours, clock alarming--

Park walking, hand holding, silly laughter--

Love is real now, here, and when after--

Mistletoe, lips to make kiss--

Eye to eye, two make a wish--

Gentle and soft as a white dove--

Tonight, she'll think I invented love.

Social Behavior by Kenneth Carter

Engraved emotions into stained glass--New Moon, partake Step Dance class

Fifty states, Seven continents, savoir faire--New year resolution and even a dare

Pisces do it best--Fret not, confident, invite the test

Far east, or west coast don't matter--Tough talk, save the chit chatter.

2500

Quickened heartbeats, loss of breath
Conversations going beyond the depth
For minutes, hours, days
Neither seem to keep track anyway
Each contact catches twinkles and sparks
OMG he's attaching to my heart
Alienate and try to push away
Only to become closer each and every day
Captivating my attention is no small feat
With each message I am piqued
By your thougtfulness and your honesty
Lately some days I sit and wonder
I don't even mind the 2500

Mary J. Blige - I Am @ The 2009 America Music Awards

Christmas gift for me.....I love Mary!!

Let Me Introduce Myself by Kenneth Carter

Hello, you don't know me, I resemble love...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble charm...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble travel...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble security...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble devotion...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble honesty...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble patience...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble loyalty...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble spiritual...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble advice...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble strength...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble conversation...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble passion...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble attractive...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble intelligent...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble procrastinator...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble motivator...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble disease free...
Hello, you don't know me, I resemble this, and more!

Freddie Jackson - Tasty Love

Darlin...when it's right...it's alright......

Milira - Go Outside In The Rain

This song has stayed with me for years!!!!!

Alphaism by Kenneth Carter

Alpha the year wary of obscurantism

To have His favor, unbounded favortism

Alpha the year with pragmatism

Deviate from such materialism

Alpha the year in darkness, in light, cherish the Creator's prism

Learn to accept constructive criticism

Alpha the year tales of colonialism

Overcame, my people now speak in colloquialism

The Alpha and the Omega

This is definitive Godism

Bachelor's Huddle by Kenneth Carter

shy stare discreet smile, my condo you visit for awhile,
a bachelors huddle...
i return from a day at sea , you on the pier excited to see me,
a bachelors huddle...
a rainy night out, just us two in the house,
a bachelors huddle ...
hot steamy shower sensual touching for an hour,
a bachelors huddle...
a sigh, oh, oooh, you... wondering what else am going to do,
a bachelors huddle...

Spoiled by Kenneth Carter

when i wash your car and pay car note for next month...excuse me may i spoil you?

when 28 days have passed and i ensure it says wings... excuse me may i spoil you?

when you're not feeling seductive and just want me to hold you...excuse me may i spoil you?

when i touch your inner emotions and thoughts of me brings a smile... to your heart

excuse me, you are spoiled!!!!!

What Happens After the Hoop?

Join Author Jerome Bell on BAN Radio
Date: Thursday, December 3, 2009 at 8-9pm ESTwww.blogtalkradio.com/Black-Author-Network Call in to listen or chat with Jerome: 646.200.0402

Callers can obtain review copies of the books by joining us!

Here is an interview with Ella Curry of EDC Creations

Ella: Greetings Mr. Bell, tell us about your passion for writing. What impact do you want your book to make on the readers?

JB: Interestingly enough, I started out wanting to write screenplays and I actually finished my first one, which was Christian based. However, I wasn't satisfied and I felt like there was something else that needed to be done. Then God made me uncomfortable when I would see folks in church caught up in a practiced mode. I was watching saints become conditioned to religious dogma: carrying out components of service on queue rather than by the Spirit.

JB: I remember telling my wife how God wanted to share so much more with us... that we were missing Him because we were becoming good at religion and missing the relationship that He desires. I remember sitting at the computer trying to write a second screenplay, when I said to her, "Somebody should write a book to help those who are trying so hard and missing it." My wife walked over to me, kissed my forehead and whispered, "Did you ever think that since God placed it in your heart, that maybe you're the one to write the book?" Then she quietly left me to deal with what I had been debating in my spirit and trying to get around all this time. I then began to write and share the fact that God wants us to have a relationship of intimacy with Him.

Ella: Introduce us to your book, "What Happens After the Hoop?".

JB: So many wonderful saints are reaching out to God with all their hearts while still locked into lifestyles that are torn and broken. Many are holding on because they think this is what's supposed to happen - so they continue to struggle but they are suffering. God has a plan of abundance for us and this book explains what that plan looks like and more importantly how to walk in it.

Ella: Why was this book so important to create?

JB: The importance here is about life and how to live it. There are a number of issues (which are detailed in the book) that keep the saints in the dark when it comes to what God desires. God loves us and wants us to grow in that love.

Ella: How will "What Happens After the Hoop" impact community relationships?JB: It is my prayer that those who get this message will be able to come up and out of their struggles, and walk in the joy that God has ordained for them.

Ella: What is the most surprising thing you have learned from the christian community?

JB: With all the preaching and teaching out there, many are still missing the best part of God, the intimacy that He so freely offers.

Ella: What would you say has been your most significant achievement with this book?

JB: So far, it would be that many of the folks who have read it, have said that it has added joy and knowledge to their lives.

Ella: How has writing "What Happens After the Hoop" changed or shaped your life?

JB: As I was writing, the Holy Spirit revealed some things to me, so the book also speaks to me. What I thought I was going to write and what the Holy Spirit moved me to write were two very different things. Because of this process, I am yet closer to Christ and am seeing the Word of God through fresh eyes.

Ella: What can we expect from you in the future?

JB: I am currently writing my next book entitled "Take Your Seat", which will address walking in our authority, because many of us are seated in the wrong place in the Kingdom.

"What Happens After the Hoop?" by Jerome Bell

An easy guide to the wonderful intimate relationship that God desires to share with us. This book offers simple answers for those who seek that next plateau in their relationship with God. Are you ready for the next step?

ISBN-10: 0578022834 ISBN-13: 978-0578022833
Email Jerome Bell at: http://us.mc463.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=worshiping_man52@yahoo.com
Purchase the book at the following places--Amberbluepub.com --Amazon.com--Justbookz.com